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Transformation Tuesday | Between Beautiful Arrival Moments 🌷

Brilliant One,

Every transition is an opening.

An interrupt.

A pause, full of fresh possibilities, some of which you might not even have seen or daydreamed or conceived of yet.

The space between HERE and THERE – the space of a transition – is actually the same thing as your whole life, because your whole life is between here and there, minus a beautiful few arrival moments.

So let these spaces and seasons be filled with the ambrosia of expectancy and the excitement of not knowing what’s coming.

Doing that requires that you let it be exciting.

That you let the excitement of not knowing what’s coming not be out there as a thing foreign or separate to you, but bring it into your being.

Integrate it, by wholeheartedly engaging with the subject of your transitions whether you want to or not, whenever you’re ready.

If you’re transitioning into love, start reading about and studying and understanding and learning the art of soulful relationships.

If you’re transitioning into a season of more money, start studying financial systems even if they seem boring to you. Wholeheartedly engage with the subject.

But whenever you’re ready, let it be easy and let it be in Divine Timing.

No rush.

Because if you think about it, in one way your most important job is to trust and call in Divine Order.

To relax into Divine Timing.

To watch and wait for wonderful things.

And to understand that the excitement of not knowing what’s next for your life only comes in two flavors: integrated and unintegrated.

The unintegrated kind feels like fear.

And the integrated kind feels like exhilaration.

This is helpful to know, because it’s really one of the easiest inner switches you can flip, from unintegrated excitement to integrated.

How do you flip that switch?

Well, first, you stop saying I’M AFRAID or I DON’T KNOW and start saying I’M EXCITED.

I’m not kidding. Just doing that helps. Try it next time it’s appropriate.

What else flips the switch?

Engagement with your whole heart.

With the whole subject.

In other words: ARE YOU IN?

Are you pushing this transition away?

Are you judging certain outcomes or certain activities or certain tasks as bad, terrible, catastrophic, even just irritating, annoying? Are you calling certain outcomes or stages you’re in right now a setback?

Are you judging yourself as not up to the task?

Are you judging the universe as harsh, unkind, scarce, hard or unlikely to divulge outcomes you want, that are good for you and to you?

Or are you all the way in?

No longer fighting the waves of life.

Diving in to surf them, instead.

With total trust. Knowing that everything is always working out for you.

Head up + heart out,

Tara-Nicholle Nelson, MA, Esq.
Founder + CEO of SoulTour

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Transformation Tuesday | The Newly Aligned You 💃🏿

Brilliant One,

>> Here’s the AUDIO of today’s Transformation Tuesday 

Whether you know it or not, whether you FEEL it or not, today begins a new season for you.

Actually, every day does. 

But let’s talk about today. 

You are fresh and new today.

Today you have the capacity to achieve more alignment between your spirit, your identity, your beliefs, your decisions, your actions and your environments more today than you ever have before. 

Today, may the abundance of the spheres settle perceptibly on you, I want you to be able to feel yourself surrounding and enrobed and enveloping you in grace, favor and surprising, wonderful things. 

Today, may you embrace the new levels of vision and wisdom, intelligence, love and light that are now available to you. 

May you feel yourself as one with Infinite Spirit. With the Divine.

May you receive an unlimited anointing with clarity and direction and energy and joy and focus, and may this anointing fuel you as you do whatever you do today to answer your Divine, innermost callings and step into showing up however you are called to show up today in the world. 

Come to think of it – may you receive, period. 

May you establish a continuous connection with Source today. Right now. During this Inner Retreat.

And may that connection remain unbroken for longer today than it ever has before. 

If and when that connection is interrupted, may you receive it again more quickly today than you ever have before. 

In my prayers for you, I always give thanks that the Divine and perfect plan for your life is coming to pass right now. 

And then I always make a point to say, out loud, that we release resistance to every element and stage of the Divine plan for our lives.

Because we don’t know how things will play out, even when we’re in a season of uncomfortable or unwanted developments.

All we know is that everything is always working out for us. 

So I give thanks for this perfect day today, wherever you’re at, because today is an element and a stage of the perfect plan for your life whether it feels like it or not.

Today, right now.

May your disappointments be transformed into joy, clarity, knowledge, understanding and wisdom and courage today. 

I invite you to set down old things today.

In fact, in particular, I ask you especially to put down the tendency to armor up or tense up in anticipation of losing love or approval or losing everything or whatever it is your lizard, fearful, brain tells you you might lose if you take the natural next steps toward full alignment with your highest self, and your soul’s callings and the Divine. 

You might even want to visualize yourself literally taking your armor off now, and setting it down.

Set it down. 

You no longer need those stories to protect you. 

You no longer need those limits to protect you.

You no longer need to over-consume anything to protect yourself. 

You no longer need to smooth your edges or contort any kind of way to receive love.

You no longer need to act smaller or be quieter or hold back. 

You no longer need to bond with those people over your limitations or your struggles or outrage or gossip or struggle. 

You no longer need to pretend you still are who you once were. 

You no longer need to stay in those old contracts with people. 

You can come out now.

You can unfurl now. 

You can speak up now. 

You can open up now. 

You can open your heart and your mind and especially your arms to receive everything, everything, everything, everything this Universe has for you. 

You now have the capacity to take in the fullness of life and love and joy, you now have the capacity to rise to what your new life requires of you, asks of you, is calling forth from you, is pulling out of you, is grooming you for. 

You can now receive people as they are, without anyone being bad or wrong. 

You can receive them, take them or leave them and love  them either way.

You can now do boundaries, flexibly. 

With wonderful judgment and wisdom and also great, vast, tremendous self-respect. 

That’s what boundaries do, they create self-respect.

You can hold them as powerful and stop fixing for them, stop borrowing their issues, allow them to learn what they need to learn. 

You can hold yourself as powerful.  

You can restore yourself to your own greatness.

You can reclaim your own sovereignty over your own experience of life. 

And you can do this now, today, right now – before any other circumstance has firmed up or changed. 

Head up + heart out,

Tara-Nicholle Nelson, MA, Esq.
Founder + CEO of SoulTour

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Transformation Tuesday | What are you becoming? Hint: 🌊🌊🌊

>> Here’s the AUDIO of today’s Transformation Tuesday 

The #1 word people use when describing their vision, intention or goals to me is this: “SCARY”.


#2 is “BIG” and #3 is “terrifying”.

I’ve definitely detected a fear theme here.

My general rule is that if you have a deep calling to a thing like being drawn to a magnet and it terrifies you a tiny bit, you should definitely be trying to do it.

See, anytime someone mentions fear as they describe a thing they’d like to do in their next season, I’m reminded of what Tara Mohr says when she lays out the traits of a true, deep, soul-level calling.

She says you know when something is truly a calling when, among other things:

1. You aren’t yet who you’ll need to become to fulfill it, and

2. You don’t yet have what you’ll need to have in order to carry it out.

The gap between who you are now and who you’ll need to become to answer your soul’s callings is precisely the part people find scary.

But that gap is also how your callings transform you. 

Catch this principle: Your callings call forth your greatness.

But you can’t become who you need to become to do your callings by:

  • sitting in a room thinking about them 
  • talking to your friends about them, or
  • making plans to do them after you handle whatever the Life Issue of the Day happens to be today, or this week or month or year

You can only become who you need to be to do your callings by doing your callings.

I also like to point out to those who are feeling the urge to retreat on the brink of stepping into their callings that it’s very easy — tempting, even — to confuse fear with awe.

It’s easy to confuse fear with the exhilaration that meets you on the precipice of your expansion. 

It’s even easy to interpret your deep, thrilling excitement at the adventure before you as fear. 

The only way to integrate that excitement is to do what Dave Richo teaches, which is to “pretend you’ll survive” and do the scary thing anyway… to wholeheartedly engage with the subjects of your fear. 

That’s the Spiritual Strategy I use and teach.

As a practical matter, for me that means that when I look at my own vision for my own season, when I see the components and subjects that take my breath away or seem the most daunting, those are the ones I’m already beginning to:

  • Explore,
  • Learn more about,
  • Upgrade my beliefs about,
  • Speak into existence and 
  • Build skills and team and resources for right now, 


…even for projects I envision being 1, 2 or 3 years out.

Here’s a playful way to do this for yourself: 

Just envision the character you want to become in the next chapter of your life story. 

Just put yourself in the shoes of the author. 

As the author of your own life story, ask yourself: What will this character need in the next chapter?

Ask yourself: What skills, tools, guidance and mentoring will your character need? 

Then: Start resourcing the character you are becoming… now. 

And as you put these resources in place, occasionally consult this poetic roadmap for navigating fear from Khalil Gibran: 

It is said that before entering the sea

a river trembles with fear.

She looks back at the path she has traveled,

from the peaks of the mountains,

the long winding road crossing forests and villages.

And in front of her,

she sees an ocean so vast,

that to enter

there seems nothing more than to disappear forever.

But there is no other way.

The river can not go back.

Nobody can go back.

To go back is impossible in existence.

The river needs to take the risk

of entering the ocean

because only then will fear disappear,

because that’s where the river will know

it’s not about disappearing into the ocean,

but of becoming the ocean.

Head up + heart out,

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Transformation Tuesday | PSA: What can you still do this year? ✅

Friends,

>> Here’s the AUDIO of today’s Transformation Tuesday 

As I’ve mentioned over the past couple weeks, I’m already deep into my own personal, long-and-leisurely 2019 offramp… and gear-up for 2020.

Right now, I’m knocking out a bunch of what I call completions. 

Completions include any:unfinished businessunresolved issues messy subjects, or tasks I’ve been avoiding.

I’m also doing a few “finish strong” sprints on projects that are pretty good-sized.

I like to start — and finish — a couple of meaty projects every Fall for two reasons:

First, I love the feeling of harnessing the power of the year-end milestone to access my inner stores of energy to get the projects done.

And I also love using the momentum I generate during the fourth quarter of this year to light a fire under my 2020 projects come the first quarter of next year.

So I thought I’d share a little list that downloaded into my mind, rapid-fire, during meditation the other day. 

Here are 20 things you can still do before 2020: 

1. Clean something up: a closet, a crawl space or a relationship

2. Discard belongings and thought processes that don’t work or no longer serve you

3. Get rid of possessions that have energetic ties to old bullshit

4. Allow yourself to outgrow what you’ve outgrown

5. Allow yourself to desire what you desire

6. Start allowing yourself to be what you be and say what you mean, 100%, unapologetically

7. Stop telling an old story about your limitations or an old disappointment or regret

8. Give away things that you no longer use, need or love

9. Celebrate something (anything)

10. Complete something (anything)

11. Start learning one skill you’ll need to bring your 2020 vision to life

12. Create a new, needed boundary, you know what it is… and start enforcing it, too

13. Make one “necessary ending” to a pattern that no longer serves you

14. Start building the “muscle” of a tiny self-care practice, like journaling or taking a walk at lunchtime

15. Spot one pattern of negative self-talk and stop practicing it, rehearsing it or energizing it

16. Re-establish yourself TO YOURSELF as sacred, holy and magnificent (because you are all those things)

17. Do something fun or creative for no good reason, just because

18. Notice and revel in one item of evidence of the abundance of this Universe per day

19. Write a book.

NOTE: I’m not kidding. I’m just opening up enrollment in 1QB, my One Quarter Book-Writing Boot Camp, where I’ll coach you to start and finish your transformational book by New Year’s week, 2020.

>> Learn more or register in my One Quarter Book-Writing Boot Camp before we raise the price in 2020, here: soultour.com/1qb

20. Learn something new about yourself so you can make empowered, new choices in 2020.

Hit reply and let me know what you decide to do by year’s end, or come share in my Private Spiritual Strategy™ Facebook Group.

Head up + heart out,

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Transformation Tuesday | Autumn is for SHEDDING 🍁

>> Listen to the AUDIO of today’s Transformation Tuesday. 

Let’s shift our focus to alignment. 

Alignment is an aperture, an opening, for abundance. 

It opens you up to the flow that is already trying to come to you. 

Do you know what else alignment does? 

It flips the struggle switch off. 

And it creates an inner atmosphere of peace. 

Because misalignments are your inner conflicts. 

And they show up as tightness in your body and constriction in your spirit. 

As Gripping. Clutching. 

Because the natural way, the Divine Order of things, is ease and flow, so when we’re in constriction, or in that tight, holding energy?

That’s just a symptom of misalignment. 

Doesn’t mean anyone is bad or wrong.

Doesn’t mean anything is bad or wrong. 

Just misaligned.

And entropy is a natural law, so that happens over time.

When you want to call things in, when you want to release and receive, you must allow the Divine Order of things to play out and be established in all your affairs.

Always, in all seasons, the Divine Order is that things fall out of alignment and then they realign. 

If you let them.

And the way that happens in autumn, the Divine Order of autumn (which it is in my part of the world right now) is shedding. 

Catch this principle: alignment is an aperture for abundance and in turn, all shedding is an aperture for alignment. 

Whether you are shedding leaves, lies. Restraints. Attachments to who you’ve been. Attachments to old struggles and disappointments.
 
Shedding old ways of being, thinking and doing. 

Shedding any or all of the above opens you up for alignment, and that opens you up for abundance. 

So let the autumn be your teacher and allow to shed what needs to be shed. 

Allow the old and outgrown to shed. 

Allow the snake’s skin to be your teacher and let friction molt off your old, outdated, outgrown ways of being. 

Allow the baby chick to be your teacher and let the shell you’ve been living in become too tight for who you are becoming, allow your head to poke through and peck its way out. 

Allow the book to be your teacher, and let the page turn to reveal your next adventure. 

No need for blame or shame.

Allow the tardigrade, my favorite bug, to be your instructor and let the season change from stress and scarcity and survival mode to this season in which you are who you are in a powerful, relaxed NOW of graceful allowing and re-creation and intentional reinvention, whether the shifts you’re making in your life are tiny or tremendous.

And let what needs to shed, let it go easefully. 

Easefully. Peacefully. Gracefully. 

Embracing the vastness of the unknown about what’s coming next, forcing nothing, wholeheartedly engaging with every element of that vastness – which might feel a bit scary – and allow yourself to relax and unfurl as you become who you’re becoming.

Today, as we take our Inner Retreat, let’s drop out of our resisting mind.

Let’s release all holding and protecting energy.

Let’s wipe the slate clean and drop fully into this present moment.

And let’s stay there as long as we can today, to see what Divine Timing and Order bring to us and inspire from us all throughout the day today.

Nestle deeply into your sitting spot, and just sit with a peaceful gaze and soft focus on something around you.

Just breathing, seeing what is before you, hearing what is around you, smelling whatever is in your space.

And just allowing your breath to remind you what a player and full participant you already are in this beautiful game of life.

Close your eyes, softly and gently, and consider even adding a tiny smile to your face if that feels good to you.

Take three deep breaths, filling and emptying your lungs completely three times, just luxuriating in each cycle of inhales and exhales.

Bringing your breath as low in your body as you can.

Lavishing in these moments of life where you just have nowhere else you’d rather be and nothing else you’d rather be doing than taking this Inner Retreat.

Recalibrating.

Reconnecting.

Re-Sourcing.

Getting just what you’ll need for today.

You can come back for more tomorrow, or even later today, if you’d like.

You’re always welcome here.

On your inhales, receive Infinite Intelligence and the Divine Wellbeing of Limitless Love.

Receive the Creative Power that formed all worlds.

And focus on the word: JUST.

As you exhale, release all tension, relax your muscles and your brow and your jaw and anything that is tight or clenched within you, and breathe out as you hold in your mind the word: THIS.

Inhale: JUST.

Exhale: THIS. 

And just sit and breathe and be like this for another 10 minutes today.

When your mind wanders, let it wander for awhile, then gently bring it back to focus on JUST on your inhales, and THIS on your exhales.

Just this moment.

Just this soul. 

Just this life.

Just this spirit.

Reveling in all that is fresh and new this moment, just like you’re beginning all over again today… because you are.

Head up + heart out, 

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Transformation Tuesday | My personal “Magic Question” to ask yourself now 💡

Last week, I started sharing what I’m doing and teaching my students about how to have a long, lavish and inspiring onramp into 2020.

My intention is to help you have a clear vision for what you want to create in 2020 way before we even start the New Year.

So I’m calling this video series 2020 Vision… get it??

My intention is also to help you do what I do every year, which is to begin the process of:

  • aligning what needs aligning
  • metabolizing what needs metabolizing
  • clearing space for the fresh, new things you’re calling in
  • getting resourced and ready, and
  • releasing Inner Resistance to your dreams and goals so far in advance that you might actually start living your 2020 vision before 2019 is even done. 

As I shared my own approach to getting ready for 2020 (which you can watch on IGTV at the links below), what emerged was a theme:

Things you should say to yourself to start opening up to a beautiful vision for your next season.

Ask yourself: What wonderful things are trying to come to me and through me?

Say to yourself Gay Hendricks’ Ultimate Success Mantra:

“I expand in abundance, success and love every day as I inspire others to do the same.”

Surrender with the Declaration: I declare that Divine Order is now established in my mind body and affairs.

And when you get a Divine Download…

When you receive your golden threads of inspiration…

When you’re struck with an idea or a flash of a vision that is so gorgeous and resonant it would normally trigger fear and catastrophe thoughts about all the bad things that could happen if you dare to step forward…

That’s when I want you to ask yourself my personal Magic Question:

What’s the best that could happen? 

May your answers to my Magic Question soothe, exhilarate and activate you, now and in 2020.

Here are the links to my IGTV series, 2020 Vision:

Episode 1
Episode 2
Episode 3 

Head up + heart out,

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Transformation Tuesday | 99 days till 2020 ⌛

Friends,

Today is a very special Transformation Tuesday, because 99 days from now will be the first day of the year 2020.

>> Listen to the AUDIO of today’s Transformation Tuesday.

2020, I find, is such an iconic-sounding year in most of our minds because of what it represents or represented many years ago, really.

It sounded and felt so incredibly futuristic back in the day. 

And it might still sound that way to you now even though it’s only 99 days away.

And so I invite you to treat it how we in the School of Spiritual Strategy treat any future you want to intentionally create: with the knowledge that your future simply reflects your energetic, emotional, vibrational, spiritual now. 

So, and this part might be totally revolutionary for you, let’s approach creating your 2020 future reality this way: by totally ignoring what you don’t like about your now or would prefer to be different in your future. 

Instead, let’s tune into what you love about right now. 

This is not something we always do in Transformation Tuesday, but I’m going to ask you to do it today: it’s a little guided Practice.

Get to your favorite place to sit, and sit well.

Let your mind parts and your body parts all sink in and settle in, close your eyes, let gravity and these first few moments of time here work together to pull the tension and tightness or gripping or clutching out of your muscles and your joints.  

Release all the micro-muscles in your face and your jaw and around your eyes. 

Straighten your spine up as you sit, and lengthen up through the sides of your body. 

And take three delicious, replenishing, cleansing breaths, filling and emptying the entire container of your torso – everything below your neck and above your pelvis – three times before coming back to breathe at your own pace. 

One of my teachers once said that the language of this Universe is “More, please.”

Kind of like I’m teaching my baby granddaughter right now, in baby sign language to use her words and say, “more, please” instead of whining and crying about what she doesn’t like.

“More, please.”

As you sit today, I want you to let your mind wander a little bit more than you might normally be used to doing during meditation.

Scan through your body and your mind and your thoughts and your life, your relationships, your projects, your memories, your everything.

Let your focus be like dye that just sticks to and coats every element of the things that come to mind that you love…only the elements of those subjects that you love. 

Let your focus stick to a particularly beautiful memory of a particularly beautiful moment. 

Or let it stick to this thing you loved about that relationship or job, and then this thing you loved about that other one, and so on.

Catch this principle: that you can focus on different things you loved about different experiences and cobble them together on a spiritual plane to create one new season on that subject that has lots of things you love about it.

Think about it through the lens of relationships: you liked the playfulness of that relationship and the ambition of that one and the high-energy of that one, and the spirituality and grounding of that one. 

When you do this, focusing on just the elements of what you love and want more of in this way, you honor every one of those relationships and turn them all into this beautiful path of stepping stones lighting up, one to the next one, all leading to the next one.

And hey, when it comes to relationships, the next beautiful relationship you’re creating that you know is possible might even include the next season of the relationship you’re already in. 

So let your focus stick on the one wonderful memory or thing you love, maybe about a person who might otherwise be stirring up trouble, someone with whom you may be having a power struggle, but what’s one wonderful thing about them? 

Maybe once in a while bring your mind back to focus on the word MORE on your inhales and PLEASE on your exhales, when you want to bring your mind back to a point of focus. 

But mostly let your mind go free, unresisted, but with every new thought or topic that comes to mind, find something on the subject that you love about it and would like more of in 2020. 

And in that, note and name what it is you love and want more of on every subject that comes to mind, just lightly, touch the thing you love like a feature and then let your mind go. 

Then just let your mind sit on these things for a moment, just an instant, before you let it wander to the next thing or before you bring it back to focus occasionally on the words MORE on the inhales and PLEASE on your exhales.

MORE. 

PLEASE.

As you go, noting and naming what really works for you, what really floats your boat, what you love about the people, places and things and memories and experiences and activities and animals and trees and topics that come to your mind. 

Before we end this little inner retreat, and you can stay here as long as you want, but before you end bring your mind back to say to the Universe, to the Divine, the Infinite Intelligence and Limitless Love, the Creative Power that formed all worlds, to your own Inner Being, to the voice of the Divine that speaks to you, within you and to all the resources in the Circle: “More, please.” 

Keep your head up and your heart out,

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Transformation Tuesday | ROADTRIP! 🚗

Dear Brilliant One:

>> Here’s the AUDIO for today’s Transformation Tuesday.

Think of your life transitions like a series of roadtrips. 

You are here, now. 

And things are changing. You’re in motion.

You’re heading there.

Even if you’re not sure where there is.

Sometimes, in life transitions, that gap between here and there creates all kinds of stress and inner havoc.

But if you reset your perspective and just think of your transitions like individual roadtrips from where you are to where you’re going in your next season, that stress can gradually transform into excitement.

And that excitement can transform into fear-killing, wholehearted engagement with the subject matter of even your most feared, most unwanted and most daunting transitions.

And then that wholehearted engagement is a super-quick hop to love: loving the adventures of your life, even when you started that particular roadtrip kicking and screaming.

Because you’re really, always just on the way.

And you’ll get there. Almost certainly. 

How you’ll get there remains to be seen. 

See, occasionally, there’s just a single route from here to there.

But the vast majority of the time, that’s not the case.

For most destinations in your life, there are literally millions of ways to get there.

Millions of paths that could light up.

And the looser you stay, the less attached you get to any one path?

The more fun you have on the trip.

The less fraught it is.

The more cool stuff you see by the side of the road.

The more side trips you take and discoveries you make and people you meet and art you buy and delicious food you get to sample, all along the way.

The looser you stay, the more flexible you are when the Divine Detours show up.

A Divine Detour is the kind of detour that happens when you have to veer around that tree trunk in the road, or you have to wait for the snow to melt, and you are suprisingly, delightfully, blissfully blessed by some event that only takes place because of that delay.

Let me ask you something.

What if … just what if… all delays were beneficial to you?

Ok, well they are, so there’s that.

I know that.

But what if you knew that?

And trusted it.

And so you decided to appreciate even your mistakes, looking for the wonderful things that could be coming your way as a result of them.

And what it you could do all of this trusting and looking for wonderful, happy accidents to come your way not just in retrospect, not just when you’re 90 or 120.

But in real time.

You can.

When you realize that Divine Timing is real,

And when you realize that that means all delays are actually to your benefit,

And when you realize that this doesn’t just mean your delays are keeping you from a traffic accident or some other catastrophe…

And when you realize that beneficial delays can include all sorts of blessings coming your way, all sorts of components of your dreams and callings lining up, all sorts of grooming and preparation for your callings happening not just all around you but also within you?

That’s when you start feeling like you’re winning at life.
Because then you can relax. Finally.

You can stand down, turn off your high-alert.

Your over-vigilance.

You can turn off your scarcity and perfectionism and unworthiness stories because OH BY THE WAY: THEY’RE JUST GIVING YOU THE DELUSION OF CONTROL.

They’re not controlling anything anyway.

And from this relaxed, receptive, allowing state of being, it’s much easier to see the Divine Path — the perfect, Divinely-laid plan for your life, the opportunities you need to learn what your soul came here to learn, to shed the programming and lies of culture and to live in ever-increasing freedom, growth and joy — it’s much, much easier to see that Path light up before you, step by step.

Magical step by magical step.

In this state of openness and willingness, it’s much easier to feel skill and mastery in your transitions, because you can trust in Divine Order and in your own resilience, Genius and innate wiring for wellbeing.

More and more, over time, you learn to trust in yourself to hear your own Inner Guidance, to get those Divine Downloads, and to act on them when they show up.

And that’s when life begins to feel like a magical game where losing isn’t even possible.

You can’t get it wrong.

Takes the pressure off, doesn’t it?

Head up + heart out,

TNN
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Transformation Tuesday | I’m not a healer ✋🏽

Dear Brilliant One:

>> Here’s the AUDIO for today’s Transformation Tuesday. 

I’m not a healer.

Mentor. Aide. Guide. Speaker of life. Creator of tools. Teacher. Writer. Coach.

Entrepreneur. Marketer.

I’ll be all of that.

But I’m not the source of anyone’s healing.

In fact, your healing is inevitable… in this lifetime or elsewhere in the timeline of your eternal soul.

Catch this principle: Your human soul is a self-healing organism.

Your soul relentlessly seeks healing out and just heals, when you stop re-activating and re-inflicting your original wounds.

The healing sought by a soul in pain — the grail quest of inner wellbeing, your soul’s hunger for oneness with Infinite Intelligence, Limitless Love, the Creative Power that formed all worlds?

It may be delayed, for a season.

But it will not be denied. 

Because wellbeing is your soul’s Divine Inheritance.

Wellbeing is YOUR Divine Inheritance.

So, nah. I’m not a healer.

You are.

Head up + heart out,

TNN

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Transformation Tuesday | How to access (much) more time and energy ⏰💥

Dear Brilliant One:

>> Listen to the AUDIO of today’s newsletter.

Energy rises and energy falls. Some days you have a lot. Other days, meh.

But I’m here today with wonderful news: Your inner stores of energy — all the energy you’ll need to take the actions you want to take in life — they are fully renewable.

Contrary to popular belief, your energy is actually limitless.

Tapping into your vast inner reservoirs of energy is actually very simple. 

When you engage with activities and people who turn you on and light you up, do more of that.

When you engage with people or have experiences that drain you, do less.

No, seriously. 

Catch this principle: Depletion is always a sign that a necessary ending is ready to be made.

Maybe you need to stop engaging in that way with that person or that project or that topic.

Or maybe you need to put an end to the story you’re telling yourself about that person or project or topic.

Maybe you need to get more help. 

Or stop overgiving. Overdoing. Overdelivering. Overperforming. 

Stop undercharging.

Maybe it’s time to stop cramming so many things on your to-do list, heal your addiction to hurry and worry, and stretch out your timelines so you can “flow with the course of events in the same way that you dance to music, neither trying to outpace it nor lagging behind”, as Alan Watts so beautifully put it.

Or maybe it’s time to finally put an end to an old obligation that once gave you life… but now feels like “shackles on” (to quote Martha Beck).  

You have the right to outgrow things. 

Whatever the case may be, know this:

Life isn’t supposed to drain you

You did not come here to live in a state of chronic depletion or dread of the tasks before you.

I know this is controversial. In our culture, we’ve been telling the opposite story forever.

We tell the story that life is short and life is hard and the world is intense and adulting is really hard and the struggle is real.

Some of the most spiritual, conscious people on the planet are contributing to this storyline. 

We talk about energy vampires and avoiding narcissists and self-care and “learning boundaries” as though it’s so much more complicated than simply prioritizing how you feel first, and moving toward what feels good and away from what doesn’t. 

But it doesn’t have to be more complicated than that.

If you learn to let your Inner Guidance pull you toward energizing people, places, activities and things, even what seems like the most scarce resource of all — time itself  — starts to stretch and feel long and lavish.

Time stops feeling scarce when you know that:

  • when you’re feeling good, 
  • you’re fueled by inspiration, 
  • you’re often in your Zone of Genius and 
  • you’re not constantly forcing yourself to do things you hate?

Things that might have taken you 6 months to do only take you 6 hours to do.

And time stops feeling scarce when you realize that Divine Order and Timing are in your favor. 

Divine Order is lining up all the components of your callings, and that’s a process. 

It takes time. 

You are being groomed and prepared, and that takes time, too. 

You can trust and rely on this: Small things grow.

It is Universal law. You just plant the seed and make sure it gets nourished. Maybe you protect it from the bunnies. 

But you don’t have to watch it or track it or make it happen. 

You just plant the seed and let this Universe do what it does.

As quiet as it’s kept, time is actually on your side.

So, catch this principle, too: You can relax. 

I have it on great authority.

Let go of arbitrary time crunches. 

Let go of the sick habit of tracking your progress in life and deeming yourself to be behind where you should be,

Let things unfold in their own sweet time, which is still sometimes faster than you could have done with all your effort… and other times slower, but it’s always less depleting, less stressful and more beautiful, and more effective than you could have forced it to happen, hurried it to happen, or “made it happen”.

Oh… and time also feels way less scarce when you know you have the power to tap into the efficiency of inspiration and essentially create time by clearing depleting things from your physical space, your calendar space, your heart and your mind.

This creates space for flow. For inspired ideas to flow in, and for the energy to act on those ideas to flow in, too.

And catch this one last principle, Sabrina: There is nothing in this world as efficient as inspired action.

Create space for that.

P.S.: Creating space is the very first thing I teach my students to do anytime they want more of any type of resource to flow in, whether that resource be time, energy or even money. 

The week-long onramp for my six-week Sacred Money Archetypes program started last Friday , and my students are already taking some simple, baby action steps to create an “intentional vacuum” and prepare their hearts, minds and physical environments for a fresh influx of abundance.

My Sacred Money Archetypes Transformation Program is open for enrollment until 11:59 pm PT this Thursday, September 5th, and on Friday we begin our deep dive of self-discovery and releasing money blocks.

If you’d love to start 2020 with new levels of financial freedom and soul fulfillment, join us: Click here to register.

Head up + heart out,