We’ve all fallen into ruts. And after the recession, many have found their ennui and generalized dissatisfaction to be worse than normal. Maybe you worked and worked to get a job, then you get one, and still … blech.

Maybe you fought and fought to keep your home, and you got that elusive loan mod, only to find yourself feeling much less than victorious; or you didn’t get it, and have been dealing with feelings of failure.

Or perhaps you had personal dreams around relationships, children, whatever — and whether or not you realized them, you just lack the excitement about life you thought you would have at this stage of the game.

Enter Brendon Burchard, a writer and achievement coach, and his new book, “The Charge: Activating the 10 Drives That Make You Feel Alive.” Burchard’s premise is that the root cause of this widespread dissatisfaction is that our brains and human needs have evolved at light speed, so that in 2012 we all have a much more intense need for self-actualization and fulfillment, relative to basics like food and such, than previous generations did.

Proposing that any universal ideal of what life should look out is already uber-obsolete, Burchard sketches out what the new ideal should be and deems it “The Charged Life,” a life that is engaged and energized, versus a life that is comfortable, but stale, or one that follows social normals but feels limited.

After exploring these various, more or less conscious ways of living, Burchard presents a set of characteristics, including self-reliance, creativity and connection, that position certain people — so-called “chargers” — to live a “charged life.”

The rest of “The Charge” is devoted to exploring Burchard’s own take on respectfully revising Maslow’s hierarchy of needs, offering readers his list of “10 Human Drives” that reflect what most of us really want to activate in our lives. Here are a few:

1. The Drive for Control. Burchard posits that the first five of his 10 drives are akin to next-gen food and shelter; they are the “baseline drives” that allow us to feel secure and connected enough to move toward real fulfillment, which are the second set of drives, his “forward drives.” He defines the drive for control as “the desire to regulate and influence our overall life experience.”

Burchard goes on to help readers learn to distinguish between the things they can and cannot control, and to provide super-specific action steps for activating the sense of control in our lives with respect to things we can both control and that flick neuropsychological happiness switches: novelty, challenge and workflow.

2. The Drive for Connection. The clashing of simultaneous human drives for interdependence (via interpersonal relationships, close and casual) AND independence is the root of all human conflict and much human upset, according to Burchard.

Counting the ability to share your “charge” with others in relationships as a critical element of a “charged life,” Burchard walks readers through the process of optimizing those relationships to minimize disconnects and dissension, through intentionally defining and designing what ideal relationships would look like, practicing what he calls “positive projection” and cultivating “growth friends,” or people with whom you can grow and energize your life.

3. The Drive for Challenge. Challenge is one of Burchard’s future-facing, fulfillment-creating “forward drives,” and it’s the one he calls out as being “the most powerful drive for advancing our lives.”

Challenge also dominates the drives because it unifies them, according to Burchard, “in that it introduces a change in our lives that we must now control, build new competence around, and, often, socially manage (activating caring and connection).”

Burchard provides three actionable steps — and a number of mindset shifts — for activating our excitement and engagement in the realm of challenge, including choosing the right challenge, focusing on the right things and avoiding a focus on the wrong things that come up during your challenge quest, and breaking off bite-sized, 30-day, personal, social or giving challenges every single month.

This book is a great engine-revver for those who feel like they are in a rut, or for those who feel like their calling is out there and they are struggling to find the structure or juice to take off in hot pursuit. I strongly recommend this book.

I read a lot of books — over 200 just in the last three years. I bring up that number by way of pointing out the scope and significance of this statement: one of my top 10 favorite books of my entire lifetime is “The Artist’s Way.”

It might sound artsy-you-know-whatsy, but since its 1992 publication this masterwork has served over 3 million artists and others who need to be — or simply want to be — creative, with its powerful tools and insights for getting and staying unblocked.

While it has served that role in my own life in my work as a writer and creator of digital content, “The Artist’s Way” has been at least equally as impactful in my entrepreneurial, personal, financial, and career endeavors. The ability to think flexibly and innovatively in crafting original solutions to problems has been of great, great value (and has probably saved my bacon more than a few times).

But I have long thought of my personal non-artistic uses of the book as rogue, or off-label, specifically when it comes to matters of finance and business. “The Artist’s Way” was intended for artists, after all — it’s not called the “Businesswoman’s Way” or the “Money Maven’s Way.”

So imagine my delight and surprise to learn that the creator of “The Artists’ Way,” Julia Cameron, was releasing a title on that topic nearest and dearest to my heart: prosperity. In her new book, “The Prosperous Heart: Creating a Life of ‘Enough’ ” (Tarcher Penguin, 2011),Cameron and co-author Emma Lively aim to first reset readers’ understanding of prosperity as a spiritual matter, not a monetary one.

They carve out a new definition of prosperity as having faith, satisfaction and “enough” — “having a life beyond need and worry.” Financial healing, they make sure to point out, is included, but is only one element of true prosperity.

After dealing with definitions, Cameron and Lively provide a set of five tools to help readers generate this expanded sense of prosperity. The first two, dubbed “Morning Pages” (three pages written longhand, stream of consciousness, first thing every morning) and “Walking” (literally, taking a 20-minute walk two or more times a week) are tools used in “The Artist’s Way” to unleash creative flow.

In “The Prosperous Heart,” Cameron slightly repositions them as tools for cultivating emotional and financial clarity, especially when it comes to understanding where your values and your actions are not in alignment, and healing that disconnect.

The next two tools are much more financial in nature, but are still uber-simple: “Counting” (tracking every dollar and cent that flows in or out of your hands and accounts) and “Abstinence” (refraining from creating new debt, with exceptions for car and home loans that are affordable vis-a-vis your monthly income).

The last tool, “Time-Outs,” are like micro-meditations —  5-minute a.m. and p.m. quiet times that we can use as check-ins with ourselves, our feelings and our choices (about finances or otherwise) or to pray, meditate, or otherwise get “in touch with a deeper, kinder, wiser part of ourselves.”

Beyond their utility for their intended purposes, all the tools can also be used to help detect where the bulk of your own personal challenges in the prosperity realm may lie. The more resistance you feel to the idea of practicing any given tool, the authors say, the more valuable that tool will be in creating the prosperity you seek.

(This mirrors precisely the lesson I learned long ago from an old yogi from India, who brusquely overruled my protests that I’d been too tired to come to class one evening by declaring that the times when I most feel like staying at home are the times I stand to gain the most by coming to class and practicing, anyway. How true that has proven to be in the years since. When I’m too tired to worry about whether I’ll be able to balance on one foot, I’ve found that it is much easier to do so.)

After introducing readers to these tools and making the case for incorporating them into our daily routines, Cameron and Lively provide a 12-week course in prosperity, touching on everything from:

• inventorying and examining your spending habits, money fears, relationships and past losses;
• trusting in a higher power and in yourself to provide for your wants and needs; and
• practicing kindness, forgiveness and velocity: the authors’ term for not too little and not too much action.

If spiritual matters or references, of even a nonspecific, nondenominational nature, tend to frustrate or offend you, “The Prosperous Heart” might not be for you. One of its core premises is that a higher power exists that wants to and will provide for you.

While the authors carve out an extremely broad realm of how individual readers might conceive of that spiritual force, some might find that to be a turnoff.

If, on the other hand, you do believe that some sort of higher power does exist in the universe, and you have been plagued by money problems or worries, have experienced hard times, or simply crave to feel at ease and abundant in the financial realm of your life, it would be a serious strategic error to omit “The Prosperous Heart” from your library.

It should sit side by side on your bookshelf or in your e-book reader with other authoritative titles about organizing, saving and investing your money.

The topic of mastery, which Merriam-Webster.com defines as “a highly developed skill in or knowledge of something,” has been a hot one since Malcolm Gladwell declared in his 2008 book “Outliers” that the recipe to mastering a subject was to practice it, with dedication, for 10,000 hours.

Of course, that same declaration also rendered the development of mastery a daunting personal pursuit for some.

Others see it as an endeavor to be opened up wide, explored, hacked, gamed, shortcut and fast-tracked by any means necessary, to shorten up that time frame (which many estimate as taking 10 years for the average person to get a devoted 10,000 hours of practice in) and get on with mastering stuff.

Enter, onto the mastery-mastering scene, Robert Greene, the prolific author of deep-diving, meticulously researched, story-and-strategy-laden titles like “The 48 Laws of Power,” “The Art of Seduction” and “The 33 Laws of War” with his latest book titled, simply: “Mastery.”

Greene aptly calls out that mastery is “the ultimate form of power,” and profiles historical masters who have wielded it to influence history and change the world as we know it. “Mastery” is devoted to cracking open and distilling the elements of a single, clear path and process to first mastering a subject, then deploying that mastery into power.

Unlike the scads of writers and bloggers who have focused on short-circuiting the mastery process Gladwell first laid out, Greene’s “Mastery” seeks to expose a deeper flavor of mastery. Greene’s “Mastery” starts with illuminating how masters like Benjamin Franklin, Frank Lloyd Wright and Carl Jung obtained the subject matter knowledge and expertise that was the endgame of Gladwell’s mastery, through devotion, apprenticeship and, eventually, surpassing their mentors.

Then, he surfaces insights into how each of nine modern day masters took that expertise and married it with social intelligence, expertise in related subjects and, ultimately, intuition, deploying what Greene estimates to be more like 20,000 hours of devotion to change their entire fields and the course of history.

“Mastery” is broken into six sections, each of which corresponds with one transformational stage of the path to becoming a true master as demonstrated by the historical story of one of many diverse masters Greene references (showing that mastery transcends all demographics), from African-American novelist Zora Neale Hurston to Buckminster Fuller.

Each section introduces the transformation and bio that demonstrates it, provides Greene’s Keys to Mastery at that stage and a set of strategic action points for that point on the timeline of developing mastery. Each section closes out with what Greene calls a “reversal” — a super-short story and set of actions for those who lack the resources or minimums most of us start out with in the stage being discussed, showing and proving Greene’s deep belief that mastery truly is — or can be — for everyone.

The six sections are all both sprawling and deep, engrossing more than entertaining, latent as they are with the promise of inspiring and instructing every reader to become a master, too. Here are the six overarching developmental phases of becoming an uber-master, in Greene’s “Mastery”:

1. Discover your calling. Greene launches the book by attempting (successfully, it would seem) to ignite the passion that he says we all have within. The objective? Cultivating clarity about what we’ve each been placed on this planet to do, the subject we should aim to master. Greene powerfully proclaims that “it’s never too late” to course correct to and master our individual, cosmically proper career paths.

2. Submit to reality. Greene writes, “Before it is too late you must learn the lessons and follow the path established by the greatest masters, past and present, a kind of ideal apprenticeship that transcends all fields. In the process you will master the necessary skills, discipline your mind, and transform yourself into an independent thinking, prepared for the creative challenges on the way to mastery.”

3. Absorb the master’s power. “Choose the mentor who best fits your needs and connects to your life’s task. Once you have internalized their knowledge, you must move on and never remain in their shadow. Your goal is always to surpass your mentors in mastery and brilliance,” instructs Greene.

4. See people as they are. “Often the greatest obstacle to our pursuit of mastery comes from the emotional drain we experience in dealing with the resistance and manipulations of the people around us … Social intelligence is the ability to see people in the most realistic light possible. Navigating smoothly through the social environment, we have more time and energy to focus on learning and acquiring skills. Success attained without this intelligence is not true mastery, and will not last.”

5. Awaken the dimensional mind. Once you’ve reached a certain level of success at mastering your field, Greene explains, “Instead of feeling complacent about what you know, you must expand your knowledge to related fields, giving your mind fuel to make new associations between different ideas. In the end, you will turn against the very rules you have internalized, shaping and reforming them to suit your spirit.” Greene then declares, without hesitation: “Such originality will bring you to the heights of power.”

6. Fuse the intuitive with the rational. Greene believes that the logic and intuition are not only not mutually exclusive, but that they work together in the minds of true masters. He explains that “all of us have access to a higher form of intelligence, one that can allow us to see more of the world, to anticipate trends, to respond with speed and accuracy to any circumstance … This power is what our brains were designed to attain, and we will be naturally led to this type of intelligence if we follow our inclinations to their ultimate ends.”

This book reflects Greene’s own mastery of this unique hybrid genre, something you might call historical biographical personal development. As the holidays and New Year’s approach, with all the opportunities for reflection and repositioning they entail, “Mastery” is a wonderful investment of time for those who want to end next year at a different level than this one.

I’ve never been a big action movie fan. But I’ve had to make an exception for the latest slew of superhero films. And apparently, I’m not the only one: Christian Bale’s “Batman,” the “Iron Man” franchise, Marvel Comics’ “The Avengers” — this generation of superheroes is fundamentally different than those of years past, and those differences have captivated the world.

I think it boils down to the fact that these 21st-century superheroes are really just humans, humans with intense equipment (Tony Stark), special training (Batman and Natasha Romanov from “The Avengers”), or seriously great manners, morals and stay-put hair (Captain America), but humans, nonetheless.

These heroes are all very flawed and very emotional — that makes us relate to them much more than the superheroes of yesteryear. And their relatability, in turn, causes us to wonder, as we watch them, deep in the backs of our minds: What if we could push the boundaries of our abilities, the boundaries of our possibilities? What could we do? Who could we save? What could we solve?

How could our own lives be different?

Enter Tim Ferriss, with a pretty compelling spectrum of answers to these questions. This is the same Tim Ferriss who condensed a crushing workload into a four-hour workweek with some smart organization and a few offshore personal assistants, so he could travel the world, break some world records and chronicle his adventures for us in his first book.

Yes, the same Tim Ferriss who implanted a glucose meter in his body, then hacked and tracked nearly everything about his health to bring us the time-efficient weight and wellness management programs of his last book, “The 4-Hour Body.”

Ferriss is back, with a new book, “The 4-Hour Chef: The Simple Path to Cooking Like a Pro, Learning Anything, and Living the Good Life.” And this time, Ferriss aims to show us all, yes, how to cook like we’ve been to culinary school with minimal time and resources. More importantly, though, “The 4-Hour Chef” is Ferriss’ 700-page primer on how to learn to do anything you want to do at a world class level, without the time, money or genes you might think it takes to truly excel at something.

“The 4-Hour Chef” is Ferriss’ magnum opus. True to form, he tracks his own culinary evolution, from his lifelong apathy to cooking anything to hobnobbing with the likes of Alice Waters and replicating Michelin-starred entrees in his hotel bathroom, and shares what he gained along the way: values for whole, fresh and beautifully prepared foods and the hacks that make them feasible for us all.

Google “Tim Ferriss” and “peel eggs” to find the YouTube video that just about summed up his pre-enlightenment cooking skills. He also paints a Technicolor picture of the turn his “digitally depressed” life took after he got cooking, promising readers that “the awareness we build in the kitchen and in related adventures will affect everything. Life itself becomes high-definition.”

But before he even gets to all the food stuff (pun fully intended), Ferriss devotes an exciting, meaty chunk of “The 4-Hour Chef” to the best recipe in the book, the details of the system he’s honed for learning any skill in record time: the system he calls “meta-learning.”

Ferriss surfaces a series of stunning stories of regular, relatable people — himself included — who have quickly skyrocketed from novice to world-class levels of skill at a variety of fields, from shooting three-pointers in a weekend to foreign languages in three months, applying the same speedy meta-learning basics. He tells us about the Japanese YouTube phenom who has achieved near-Phelpsian times despite lacking a swimmer’s build, having a day job and not having learned how to swim until he was almost 40 years old.

Here are the four components of Ferriss’ meta-learning system, which he refers to by the acronym DiSSS:

Deconstruction: “What are the minimal learnable units, the LEGO blocks, I should be starting with?”

Selection: “Which 20 percent of the blocks should I focus on for 80 percent or more of the outcome I want?”

Sequencing: “In what order should I learn the blocks?”

Stakes: “How do I set up stakes to create real consequences and guarantee I follow the program?”

Thus starts the 200-page odyssey into meta-learning that Ferriss presents at the outset of the book. Overall, the book is divided into five parts, thoughtfully organized and modularized so that you can smartly choose your own path through the book. It is also designed — as is the meta-learning DiSSS system — to obliterate the most common “failure points,” the things that derail the novice who is trying to become great at learning facts or skills like cooking, fast.

If you’ve ever wondered what it’d be like to have learning, skill-building and life-transforming superpowers, “The 4-Hour Chef” is your personal superhero handbook — even if you have zero interest in cooking.

Want more? Tim and I sat down to chat about the book and things like possibility, becoming world-class and “decision fatigue” in more depth. Watch the three-part video interview series on my Facebook page or at RETHINK7.com.