The WILD ways I was holding myself back

Your unconscious patterns are limiting your life in ways you can’t even see.

You just think that’s how life is.

You just chalk it up to the “fact” that the struggle is real.

You just think you’re trapped in that shadow career because it pays well and you have obligations… or because you’ve been doing it so long there’s really no other logical option for you.

You just think you can’t start the business you want because you would die if you actually put yourself out there, publicly, and no one wants to buy what you’re selling. 

You just think you can’t grow your business past where it is because it’s so hard to know what to do next, so you keep trying different strategies. 

You just think you have to get more experience or lose 10 pounds before you can level up your career… or start the business… or publish a book of your ideas… or command a higher salary… or charge your clients more. 

Listen… I’ve personally been there, on every single one of these subjects. 

I knew the struggle like I know my address.

I had this massive wall of Inner Resistance to my own dreams and goals, and it showed up in some wild ways:

  • I would leave a great job, start a great business, then go back to another great job… on repeat. 
  • I kept hiring people as employees who were really wired to be entrepreneurs, because we vibed and they wanted to “learn from me”. But then I’d coach them, their businesses would improve and they’d leave my business to go do what they really wanted to do…leaving me as the Ringmaster of things I had no business doing on my own. Over and over again. 
  • I would overpay my vendors, then get very resentful and fire them when they didn’t QUICKLY deliver the value I demanded. 
  • I would create beautiful programs, launch them once, then forget I’d created them and never market them again. Like, ever. I’d be onto the next program, and never really leverage the assets I’d already built. I couldn’t let things be easy. 
  • I would start executing a strategy, hit a wall of doubt when it didn’t immediately work, and then start frenetically doing a bunch of new things because achieving, earning and activity is how I’d always “proven” my worth. 
  • I would field conversations with recruiters and companies about amazing jobs I didn’t really want, then after 4 (precious) hours of conversation turn them down, citing my commitment to SoulTour. 
  • I would add so much live teaching and so much content into my programs that my own calendar was brutal and students couldn’t even keep up. Overdelivering. Doing too much. Addiction to doing things the hard way. Lose-lose! 

Inner resistance to your own dreams and goals is real. And it’s a powerful limiting factor on smart, successful people who feel destined for more.

But resistance looks really different in different people. 

And that’s where the Sacred Money Archetypes
® come in. 

Your 8 Archetypes reveal your unique gifts and strengths… and your most challenging patterns of psyche, emotion and behavior.

The Sacred Money Archetypes
® make the ancient wisdom of the collective unconscious user-friendly so you can see and break your patterns of resisting more success, happiness and abundance.

<<< Click here to learn more about my self-paced Sacred Money Archetypes® program. 

These patterns are like a lens: They are unconscious, but you can only see and activate opportunities through the lens of your Archetypes. 

Some people are Alchemists, transformational visionaries who can turn lead into gold… who also have a love-hate relationship with money. 

Some people are Accumulators, who are trustworthy and meticulous with their finances, who can also be frugal to a fault. 

My #1 Archetype is Ruler, which means I was born to build an empire. 

Rulers think about business all the time

Rulers are very good at creating businesses that create value for other people. You could drop me anywhere in the world and I’d figure out how to make money.

Rulers are meant to be visionary leaders of transformational empires that benefit all… and they are at their best when they inspire a team of geniuses to do the building.

But in their shadows, Rulers (like me) try to lay every brick of the empire themselves.

Because Rulers have limitless energy for work, it’s very common Ruler shadow behavior to:

  • burn employees out
  • burn themselves out
  • move onto new projects too soon and
  • do things the hardest possible way.

The beauty of the Archetypes is this: Once you make the unconscious conscious, you can see your own self-sabotage patterns, and watch them dissolve like smoke in the light of your own awareness. 

It’s like turning a camera lens into sharp focus: You can see new opportunities and resources to have the business and the life you want to have… opportunities that were right in front of you the whole time.

Let me make one thing clear: We don’t study the Archetypes to fix or change a single damn thing about who you are and how you’re wired. 

We study them so you can stop getting blindsided by the subtle ways your own patterns blow up your best ideas and limit your influence, your income, your love life and your possibilities

We study them so you can forgive the old grievances you have with yourself as you become aware of why you’ve been doing what you’ve been doing to keep your life and your business smaller than they want to be… and start reclaiming your sovereignty.

So you can gracefully, gradually break the pull of your self-sabotage patterns because once you see them, you really can’t unsee them… nor do you have to just be yanked around by them any longer.

So I can give you exercises, tools and strategies to bring your most vital energies and deepest powers to the things you’ve always wanted to do, but haven’t yet done.

And so that you can start gradually, gracefully making new empowered decisions on every subject of your life that set your True, Sacred Self up for maximum success on your own terms.

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For the first time in over a year, I am opening my Sacred Money Archetypes® course for enrollment.

The program is fully online and will be fully unlocked when you register, so you can do it at your own pace.

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I’ve been working with the Archetypes with my students and coaching clients for several years now, and it’s a powerful game-changer.

Jessica said: “Doing the Sacred Money Archetypes® work with Tara turned the lights on some of the struggles I’ve felt internally for as long as I can remember.”

B.A. said: “A year ago I made the quantum leap to take all the money I had left and invest it in your Sacred Money Archetypes® program. I remember the anguish I felt. Your program, you, helped me change the course of my life. I’ve upleveled in so many ways I am still in awe of my strength. GRACIAS”

NOTE: I’m opening this program for a few days at a deeply discounted rate, just for Transformation Tuesday newsletter subscribers. 

Ready to start fulfilling your income potential and your dreams?


Head up + heart out,



Tara-Nicholle Kirke, MA, Esq.
The Inner Critic Coach™
Spiritual Strategist to smart, successful people.

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