Brilliant One,
Every transition is an opening.
An interrupt.
A pause, full of fresh possibilities, some of which you might not even have seen or daydreamed or conceived of yet.
The space between HERE and THERE – the space of a transition – is actually the same thing as your whole life, because your whole life is between here and there, minus a beautiful few arrival moments.
So let these spaces and seasons be filled with the ambrosia of expectancy and the excitement of not knowing whatâs coming.
Doing that requires that you let it be exciting.
That you let the excitement of not knowing whatâs coming not be out there as a thing foreign or separate to you, but bring it into your being.
Integrate it, by wholeheartedly engaging with the subject of your transitions whether you want to or not, whenever youâre ready.
If youâre transitioning into love, start reading about and studying and understanding and learning the art of soulful relationships.
If youâre transitioning into a season of more money, start studying financial systems even if they seem boring to you. Wholeheartedly engage with the subject.
But whenever youâre ready, let it be easy and let it be in Divine Timing.
No rush.
Because if you think about it, in one way your most important job is to trust and call in Divine Order.
To relax into Divine Timing.
To watch and wait for wonderful things.
And to understand that the excitement of not knowing whatâs next for your life only comes in two flavors: integrated and unintegrated.
The unintegrated kind feels like fear.
And the integrated kind feels like exhilaration.
This is helpful to know, because itâs really one of the easiest inner switches you can flip, from unintegrated excitement to integrated.
How do you flip that switch?
Well, first, you stop saying IâM AFRAID or I DONâT KNOW and start saying IâM EXCITED.
Iâm not kidding. Just doing that helps. Try it next time itâs appropriate.
What else flips the switch?
Engagement with your whole heart.
With the whole subject.
In other words: ARE YOU IN?
Are you pushing this transition away?
Are you judging certain outcomes or certain activities or certain tasks as bad, terrible, catastrophic, even just irritating, annoying? Are you calling certain outcomes or stages youâre in right now a setback?
Are you judging yourself as not up to the task?
Are you judging the universe as harsh, unkind, scarce, hard or unlikely to divulge outcomes you want, that are good for you and to you?
Or are you all the way in?
No longer fighting the waves of life.
Diving in to surf them, instead.
With total trust. Knowing that everything is always working out for you.
Head up + heart out,
Tara-Nicholle Nelson, MA, Esq.
Founder + CEO of SoulTour
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